Frequently Asked Questions

What is a Bat Mitzvah?

A Bat Mitzvah is a coming-of-age ceremony in Judaism that marks a transition into adulthood. The term “Bat Mitzvah” translates to “daughter of the commandments” in Hebrew.

Annette has been preparing for several years for this day – learning to read Hebrew, studying Jewish prayers, and learning the Torah portion she will be reading on May 9 (Bechukotai).

What can I expect?

Annette will lead Shabbat services on Saturday morning along with the clergy at Temple Israel. She will chant prayers, read from the Torah in Hebrew, and offer a D’var Torah – her interpretation of the Torah portion Bechukotai.

After services, we will enjoy a kiddush luncheon together at the synagogue.

My child was invited. What do I need to know?

You’re welcome to drop your child at the door or escort them to the service. Please drop them a few minutes before 10:30am and plan to pick them up around 12:30pm after the lunch.

Please prepare your child to sit quietly and respectfully at the service and stay off their devices.

What should we wear?

For the service & lunch, people will be dressed up, such as nice pants and a button-down, suit, or a dress/skirt. It can be chilly in the sanctuary, so bring a sweater as needed.

Showing Appreciation During the Service

Annette’s Bat Mitzvah is a religious service, and we are grateful to share this meaningful moment together. Appreciation is traditionally expressed without applause, through an attentive presence and warm words. A heartfelt “mazel tov” or “yasher koach!” is the customary way to recognize her hard work and this milestone.

Will the service be livestreamed?

Yes. For those who can’t make it in person, Temple Israel does offer a livestream for virtual attendance that will be available during the 10:30am Saturday morning service.